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Those Who Have Passed

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  • 1950s

    Helen Cooey Chalifoux

    – BA'53

    Spring 2024

    Helen Cooey Chalifoux passed away on Jan. 4, 2024 at 92 at her home in Prince Albert with her family by her side.

    She is survived by her beloved husband, Léo Chalifoux; her sons, Paul and Aaron Chalifoux and his wife, Denise Redmond; and her dear sisters, Catherine Daigle and Fern Murray. She will be missed by her nieces and nephews. 

     

  • Abe Kelly, obiturary

    1950s

    Abe Kelly

    – BSc'56

    Winter 2023

    Abe Kelly passed away peacefully on Dec. 27, 2023 at his retirement home in St. Catharines at age 89.

    He was predeceased in 2020 by his wife of 63 years, Phyllis; he is survived by his children, Kim (Comm'81), Greg (Jennie Akse-Kelly), and Nancy; and grandchildren, Abraham, Charlotte, Anika, and Leah.

    Abe graduated from Queen's Engineering Chemistry in 1956, planned many Queen's reunions for his class, and went on to own and operate several successful businesses. 

  • Dorothy Nixon (Herbst) and Peter Nixon. Dorothy passed away April 8, 2023

    1950s

    Dorothy Nixon (Herbst) 

    – BA’53

    Spring 2024

    It was in 1950 on a train going from Kingston to Montreal for a football weekend that a Queen’s Mining Engineering student happened to spy a pretty young Queen’s Arts student sitting with her friend. He was so taken that he sat down beside her, introduced himself, and asked for a date. To his great delight she said yes. However, it was a bit complicated because both already had dates with other people. But they found a way to make it work.

    Thus began the love story of Dorothy and Peter.

    Dorothy Herbst and Peter Nixon (Sc’53) were married May 23, 1953 in Ottawa. They were blessed to have almost 70 years of joy and adventure until Dorothy passed away April 8, 2023. 

    Daughter Carol was born in 1958 and son Ian in 1960.

    The Queen’s tradition continued when son, Ian, graduated with an Honours Economic degree in 1983 and grandson Trevor Tomic graduated as a Mechanical Engineer in 2012.

  • Harry MacPhee Lewis, obit

    1950s

    Harry MacPhee Lewis

    – BSc’56

    Spring 2024

    Harry MacPhee Lewis passed away in Calgary in what he liked to say was his 90th year. Harry will be sadly missed by his loving wife Eleanor "Her Lordship" (Hamilton); he was predeceased by his younger sisters, Anne McInnes (Angus) and Ruth Lewis; and survived by his brother Robert Lewis (Carol). He was the proud father of Cathy Lewis (Andy Yun), Gordon Lewis (Sherrie), Stephen Lewis, Trish Hanrahan (Artsci'87) (Pat Hanrahan, Artsci'87), and Anne Marie Lewis (Artsci'88, BEd'02) (Aaron Taylor); and the loving Papa Harry to Galen, Kieran, Scott, Caitlin, Willow, and Georgia.

    Harry was born in Tampa, Florida, and raised in Paynes Mills, Ont. Harry graduated from Queen's in Chemical Engineering in 1956. It was in Kingston that he met Eleanor at the Catholic Newman club dance, which was the beginning of their 67-year romance.

    His chemical engineering career took him all over Canada and the U.S. with Union Carbide, Sun Oil, GCOS, and then Suncor. Although he was not one for self-promotion, he felt privileged to have managed the engineering design and build of the first commercially successful Oil Sands plant in Fort McMurray. He took a calculated departure from engineering with a stint as a stockbroker, where he honed his investment skills, leading to a life-long daily love of stock charting and BNN watching.

    His retirement years with Eleanor were some of his happiest and most adventurous, taking them to Europe and Asia. Escaping 20-plus Calgary winters, they enjoyed golfing and time with friends at their home in Nelson, New Zealand. Wine (longtime Opimian Society member) and gardening were his other passions. He lived long enough to be disappointed once again by his beloved Toronto Blue Jays. He treasured his colleagues and friends all over the world. He especially enjoyed weekly golf with Keith and solving the world's problems every Thursday morning with his breakfast club.

    His family would like to thank all the people who cared for Harry and made it possible for him to be with Eleanor until the end, including his loyal friend, Keith; caregivers, Raida and Svetlana; physios, Robert S. and January; Drs Vanda Phillips, Tina Chang, Paul Lathrop, and Scott Samis; and the staff at Riverwalk Retirement Residence, Foothills (Unit 62), Peter Lougheed (Unit 43), and George Boyack Carewest.

  • Elizabeth Ann Shaver (Barrett), obit

    1960s

    Elizabeth Ann Shaver (Barrett)

    – BA’67

    Spring 2024

    Elizabeth Ann Shaver (Barrett) passed away peacefully in hospital on Monday, Jan. 22, 2024, in her 79th year. She was the beloved wife of Dr. Charles Shaver; loving sister of Susan Ward; dear mother of Andrew Shaver (Paul Sobol) of Toronto, Christine Shaver (Stefano Sonsini) of Ottawa, and Matthew Shaver of Ottawa; and the loving grandmother of Lorenzo and Luca Sonsini. She was predeceased by her nephew, Sean Ward. 

    Elizabeth was a dear special friend of Dr. Jim Wong and family of Meaford, Ont.  She cared deeply about her extended family, her niece Katherine Ward (Razvan Nicolae), cousins, in-laws, and her many friends.

  • Richard (Rick) Sterne, obit

    1960s

    Richard (Rick) Sterne 

    – Sc'68

    Spring 2024

    Richard (Rick) Wilton Edward Sterne passed away on Dec. 5, 2023 at the age of 79. 

    Rick was born on Oct. 9, 1944 in Brantford, Ont. He attended high school at Brantford Collegiate Institute, Chemical Engineering at Queen's, the Ivey School of Business at Western University and, most latterly, the Rotman School of Management at The University of Toronto.

    Rick loved his time at Queen’s and attended his 55th homecoming reunion in the fall of 2023 alongside his daughter, Jennifer (Sc’98, Chemical Engineering). Rick upheld a Sterne family lineage of Chemical Engineers graduating from Queen’s. His grandfather, Edward Tyghe Sterne, graduated in 1913; his father, Francis Eddy Sterne, graduated in 1946; and his daughter, Jennifer, went on to become the 4th generation, graduating in 1998. 

    Rick possessed a spirit of positivity, passion, and generosity that would define his life. He was a leader and entrepreneur from the time he was a young child, organizing neighbourhood events throughout his youth and his school days. One of his early endeavours was founding the Bitter Grounds Coffee House during his undergrad years at Queen’s, for which he received the Tricolour Award in 1968.

    He began his professional career at 3M Canada in London, Ont., then returned to Brantford as the executive vice president at Sternson Limited. He ran for two political campaigns before starting his own business, Datasym Inc., which began as a small team in his basement. Datasym went on to grow and offer employment to many in Brantford and the surrounding area for over two decades. In his later years, he became a director of Brantford Hydro and Brantford Generation, a member at the Social Security Tribunal of Canada and most recently was a CEO chair and executive coach at TEC Canada, where he shared his time and mentorship with other entrepreneurs.

    Rick was a proud ambassador for Brantford and many of its organizations. He was most passionate about his work with Brantford Rotary Club (49 years), having served as both president and district governor. He was a past president of the Brantford Chamber of Commerce, chair of the United Way and of the board of governors of Mohawk College. He served on and chaired many foundations, including: the Juravinski Cancer Centre, the Grand River Trillium Foundation, and 29 years for the Samuel W. Stedman Foundation. He was vice-chair and director of the Lansdowne Children’s Centre, and a Jaycee for many years. Most recently, he was serving on the Laurier University board of governors and senate — a champion of the Brantford campus. Rick’s presence at community events and charitable gatherings was a testament to his commitment to making Brantford a better place for all.  

    Rick knew how to balance the demands of life with moments of joy and relaxation. He loved spending time with family and friends who often found themselves embraced by his hospitality, fun, and positivity. He made Christmas’ magical for his children and grandchildren. He loved new adventures and travel, taking up scuba diving with his son, Eric; snowmobiling excursions with The Great Northern Ride; and organizing many family trips — especially his trips to Mexico with his wife, Jeanette.

    His most favourite place on Earth was at the family cottage in the Bay of Islands, fondly referred to as West Point. There, he sought personal solace and enjoyed spending time with his family and friends. We know his spirit will live on through the special memories and retelling of those stories by his children and grandchildren of the summers spent up there with him.